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The Workplace Must Learn Defense.

2008/12/30 16:27:00 41953

When you are trapped

dilemma

Will you review yourself?

Act as

Workplace

We should learn to defend ourselves for later use.

　　检讨术之一：你喜欢算计别人吗？

Everyone is very bitter about other people's calculations.

Workplace

One of the most dangerous behaviors.

The consequences of such actions are despised by colleagues, but they are losing their jobs and even losing their reputation.

If you often hold the idea that your career rivals are "enemies" and "enemies", you should do everything possible to destroy them.

As a boss, he absolutely does not want his staff to push on with each other. They want everyone to give full play to their strengths and bring more benefits to themselves, and mutual exclusion will only cause their own businesses to suffer losses.

Colleagues around me also hate those who like to gossip and make dirty strokes. Everyone wants to work with like-minded people, do not know how to compete with others, respect each other, and lose everyone's trust.

　　检讨术之二：你经常会向别人妥协吗？

There is not only mutual support but also competing elements in getting along with colleagues.

Therefore, it is very important to properly adopt the attitude of acceptance and refusal.

A person who refuses others will attract everyone's rejection. A person who will only compromise with others will not only be considered as a good person but also be easily exploited and lead to serious consequences.

Therefore, we should pay attention to adhering to the necessary principles in our work and avoid involvement in such incidents as endangering the interests of the company, helping gangs and endangering others.

When confronted with such a thing, be careful to remain neutral and avoid being exploited.

　　检讨术之三：你喜欢过问别人的隐私吗？

In a civilized environment, everyone should respect others' privacy.

If you find yourself interested in other people's privacy, you need to reflect carefully.

Prying into other people's privacy has always been regarded as an act of low personal quality and lack of self-cultivation.

In fact, there are many situations that happen unintentionally. For example, you occasionally discover a strange behavior of a good friend, and tell others unintentionally, causing damage to your friends and losing your friendship.

Occasional mistakes may be made up by explanation, but if there are several similar incidents, you will have to review your problems from the psychological point of view.

In addition to learning to respect others, you must learn to maintain the right distance in your dealings with your colleagues. Be careful not to intruded into other people's "territory" so as not to be seen as boring.

　　检讨术之四：你经常带着情绪工作吗？

If you are often affected by some unpleasant events in your work and make yourself lose control of your emotions, you can make a big mistake.

If you see things or things that you don't like, it will only cause your colleagues to be disgusted with you.

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes. They should learn to tolerate or remain silent for people or things they do not like.

Your own likes and dislikes are not necessarily consistent with others' opinions. If you often comment on others easily, you will also cause other people's disgust, resulting in too many enemies, and the situation in the office is becoming more and more difficult.

If we learn to tolerate others, we will win the support and respect of others.

　　检讨术之五：你会拒绝同事进入你的生活空间吗？

It is wrong to regard colleagues as partners only.

Do you have any colleagues in your life circle?

If not, you need to review your attitude towards your colleagues.

In fact, there are many advantages in communicating with colleagues in life, such as going out for an outing together, taking a taxi together to and from work, shopping together, buying clothes and renting together.

This will enhance understanding of each other, promote cooperation in work, enjoy economic benefits, and care for each other in life, share achievements in work and help each other in the face of difficulties.

Making colleagues become friends in life helps to cultivate harmonious interpersonal relationships and promote their work.

　　检讨术之六：你经常向同事借钱吗？

It is very important to handle the economic relationship between colleagues.

Because there are many kinds of economic contacts, there are many ways to get together and play together.

In traditional communication, people are used to entertaining each other. Generous people will suffer a lot. People who are very close to their wallets will be despised by everyone.

Now we have gradually accepted the AA system and shared the cost. It will not cause a person to suffer too much deficit, nor will he be unhappy because of the amount of money he paid.

It is necessary to draw a clear economic boundary with colleagues. In special circumstances, it is not much to borrow money from colleagues, but remember to return it as soon as possible.

If you often borrow money, others will think you are a person who has no plan and will distrust you.

Remember not to easily owe someone a dollar, and take this as a principle.

Of course, don't stick to the rules, and don't deliberately reject your colleagues when they are entertaining, and remember to say more congratulations.

There are many rules in the workplace that need to be observed. If you find that your behavior deviates seriously from these rules, you must never be opinionated. You must maintain a good attitude, use the above review techniques to reflect on it, and adjust your psychology and behavior with a positive attitude to avoid the tragedy like Wen Qi.

Editor: vivi